Lauren Attiah & Sascha Ludwikowski
October 22, 2022
Sascha Ludwikowski was late for his first date with Lauren Attiah. “That was a big deal [to him] because he’s German,” explains Lauren. “He had actually arrived 30 minutes early, but he was at the wrong restaurant.” After a few frantic texts, the two connected and were in sync from then on—getting engaged in 2019. Then things got complicated. “We ended up getting married at the courthouse to start the permanent resident process,” says Lauren. “I’m an all-or-nothing person, so I thought I’d either go to the courthouse or have the dream wedding. But I ended up having all and nothing.”
Two years after the courthouse ceremony, the couple wanted to throw a more-is-more affair at the Nasher Sculpture Center. They looked to Wendy Kay of Birds of a Feather Events to create an exceptional experience specific to them. Says Lauren: “My parents are from West Africa, and he’s from Germany, but we wanted an American wedding with cultural touches here and there.” On October 22, 2022, Wendy more than delivered, maximizing some of Lauren’s minimal ideas. “She was leaning toward neutrals, and I told her no,” laughs Wendy. “That’s going to fall flat, and in the end, even ‘timeless’ looks dated eventually. I say go big and get what you want in the moment!”
At the reception, Lauren donned a House of CB dress that allowed her to move more easily. The couple performed a bachata as their first dance as Bob Marley’s “Is this Love?” played. “It was a song we both really liked, and it came on the radio when we were driving to the courthouse to get married. We felt like it was fate,” says Lauren.
Ceremony/Reception Site
Photographer
Charla Storey Photography
Ceremony Gown Designer
Anais Anette
Ceremony Gown Retailer
a&bé Bridal Shop
Reception Gown Designer
House of CB
Reception Gown Retailer
Nordstrom
Exit Dress Designer
Kiki de Montparnasse
Hair & Makeup
Janaye Bryant; Melissa Mallam
Groom’s Attire
Hugo Boss
Groom’s Attire Retailer
Nordstrom
Flowers
Max Owens Design
Stationery
Longest Time Design (invitations)
Stationery
Southern Fried Paper (day of)
Cake
Catering
Wolfgang Puck Catering
Music
DJ Jason Esquire
Lighting
DJ Jason Esquire (pin spots and washes); hardware provided by Davaine Lighting
Videographer
Peyton Frank
Wedding Rentals
Wedding Rentals
Big D Party Rentals
Wedding Rentals
Perch Décor
Wedding Rentals
Wedding Planner/Designer
Photobooth
Smile, Bish