Two Years After Their Courthouse Ceremony, This Couple Springs For a More-Is-More Celebration

Lauren Attiah & Sascha Ludwikowski
October 22, 2022

Two years after tying the knot at a courthouse, Lauren Attiah and Sascha Ludwikowski said “I do” again in a stunning celebration at the Nasher Sculpture Center.

Sascha Ludwikowski was late for his first date with Lauren Attiah. “That was a big deal [to him] because he’s German,” explains Lauren. “He had actually arrived 30 minutes early, but he was at the wrong restaurant.” After a few frantic texts, the two connected and were in sync from then on—getting engaged in 2019. Then things got complicated. “We ended up getting married at the courthouse to start the permanent resident process,” says Lauren. “I’m an all-or-nothing person, so I thought I’d either go to the courthouse or have the dream wedding. But I ended up having all and nothing.”

Lauren Attiah & Sascha Ludwikowski's Wedding, Engagement Ring

I do, part Deux

Two years after the courthouse ceremony, the couple wanted to throw a more-is-more affair at the Nasher Sculpture Center. They looked to Wendy Kay of Birds of a Feather Events to create an exceptional experience specific to them. Says Lauren: “My parents are from West Africa, and he’s from Germany, but we wanted an American wedding with cultural touches here and there.” On October 22, 2022, Wendy more than delivered, maximizing some of Lauren’s minimal ideas. “She was leaning toward neutrals, and I told her no,” laughs Wendy. “That’s going to fall flat, and in the end, even ‘timeless’ looks dated eventually. I say go big and get what you want in the moment!”

Lauren Attiah & Sascha Ludwikowski's Wedding, Couples Dance

Dressed to Thrill

At the reception, Lauren donned a House of CB dress that allowed her to move more easily. The couple performed a bachata as their first dance as Bob Marley’s “Is this Love?” played. “It was a song we both really liked, and it came on the radio when we were driving to the courthouse to get married. We felt like it was fate,” says Lauren.